Showing posts with label frivolity. Show all posts
Showing posts with label frivolity. Show all posts

24 April 2012

In search of the perfect pram

When it comes to prams, I've had my share of disappointments. I know I'm not the only one. I've had 3 children so far... and 3 prams. Although I do find this a little embarrassing and excessive, I know a couple of people who have had the same number of prams over the life of 1 child. Finding the right pram is so important! With the impending arrival of a 4th child, I'm thinking about a new pram..., and I'm after some advice.

Here is a brief history of prams (in the life of the Useful Box family):

1) With the imminent arrival of our first baby, we purchased the Beema Swallow from Babyco:


We liked this pram. Though it wasn't the best looking pram around, it was reasonably priced, had a bassinet insert that allowed me to look at my newborn bub while walking, and was excellent for navigating tough terrain. It was perfect for a time of my life when I did a lot of walking (we were a one-car family). But, this was not a forward-thinking purchase for our family. Having taken 2 years to achieve a healthy pregnancy with Miss now-almost-4, we did not expect to be needing a double pram, or the capacity for a toddler seat for a while... we were wrong!

2) Enter the Maclaren Twin Tandem:


We liked the fact that this was a light-weight double pram (under 11kg), folded easily, was side-by-side (an advantage when children are close in age) and was a trusted brand. This would have been an ideal pram for this stage of my life (when I don't do much walking with the kids, and just need something easy for zipping in and out of the car, shops etc). But, when I did use this pram, we were still a one-car family, I still did a lot of walking, and much of it was on grass or uneven footpaths. I  found this pram, with its small wheels very heavy to push. By the time we decided to sell the pram, I was just exhausted by it!

3) With the arrival of #3, #1 was going to have to walk... I was not going to get a 3-seater pram. But, I did want a 2-seater that was more comfortable to push over a variety of terrain. We purchased a (second-hand) Phil and Ted's with a toddler seat. 

And now, I just want my Maclaren Twin Tandem back! The reality of life with 3 children is that we do not "go for walks" as often (unless my husband is available too).  If we do go for a walk, we move at preschooler/ toddler pace (e.g. not fast). I could probably manage this pace and frequency while pushing my Maclaren Twin Tandem. (And besides, my two big kids have discovered that whoever is supposed to be taking a turn to walk is actually able to sit on the frame above the front wheel of the Phil and Ted pram. This means that I am usually pushing 3 children in the pram, rather than 2. The pram is then just as hard to push as the Maclaren was anyway!) Being a two-car family now has also reduced our walking frequency, but with 3 children under 3, not being a 2-car family would be really difficult. My priorities for a pram now would be something smaller, lighter, easy to get in and out of the car... The Phil and Ted pram is too bulky.

4) So, for number 4... I'm considering a second-hand Mountain Buggy Duo. 
Our 2 big kids will attend preschool 2 days/ week next year (that is, if our biggest doesn't go to school... still thinking), so I will have only a baby and a toddler at home those days. I might actually be able to do some walking again! I'm thinking this pram would be perfect... I really like the side-by-side prams. The wheels are bigger, so easier to push... it looks streamlined...

Am I just setting myself up for more pram disappointment? Should I stick with the Phil and Teds... Any experience with Mountain Buggy? Other recommendations...?

Have you had a frustrating search for the perfect pram? Or, have you found one?

28 February 2012

10 applications of Murphy's Law in parenting

According to Wikipedia, Murphy's law is an adage or epigram that is typically stated as: "Anything that can go wrong will go wrong". It all sounds a little bit pessimistic to me, but I must admit, there are many moments in parenting when Murphy's law seems to apply.

Here are a few examples:

1. The amount of time involved in setting up and cleaning up an activity is inversely proportional to the time your children will spend engaged in that activity.

2. Ditto with meals. The amount of preparation and clean-up time involved in a meal is inversely proportional to the amount that will be eaten.

3. Your children may be playing cooperatively, calmly and kindly, but, as soon as you pick up the telephone, chaos will descend.

4. If you try to settle yourself in for a longer toilet visit (perhaps even with a book!), your not-long-toilet-trained child/ren will suddenly be "busting".

5. During afternoon rest time, if you dare allow your eyelids to rest, your children will urgently require your attention.

6. Weet-bix will stick like mortar to any and all surfaces. Your children will spread this substance, more than any other, on every available surface. You will always miss at least one bit of the sticky substance when wiping the table/ high-chair. An intricate and long-winded removal process will be required days later.

7. Your children, with above-mentioned weetbix in hand, will suddenly need to rub their hands all over their face, hair and clothing.

8. When you have cleaned and dressed your child/ren for church, a birthday party or other special occasion, they will suddenly have the urge to (a) play in the sandpit, (b) eat a chocolate biscuit, or particularly juicy strawberries or (c) find the paint/ textas or gluesticks.

9. When you are desperate to be on time for any occasion, there will always be a last minute (a) nappy change, (b) incident involving any other bodily fluid, (c) a missing item of special importance (dummy, teddy, drink bottle). You will only realise the significant item is missing when you are over halfway to your destination. 

10. When compiling the outfit for your child to wear to above special occasion, one key component of the outfit will be found in either (a) the bottom of the dirty clothes basket or (b) hanging wet on the clothesline. This will be discovered 5 minutes before you need to leave.


How do you see the Law of Murphy at work in your parenting?

20 December 2011

I'm not "generation-ist" but...

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According to this article, which I saw linked on a friend's Facebook page yesterday, the most annoying words or phrases in the English language are:
  • whatever (38% of those surveyed)
  • like (20%)
  • you know (19%)
  • just sayin' (11%)
  • seriously (7%)
Poor Generation Y. If they were to take the advice of the survey group (presumably made-up of Baby Boomers and Gen X-ers), they would cut their vocabulary in half. Just sayin'. 
What words or phrases make you cringe? 

(I believe I sneak into the Generation X category, and miss the Generation Ys by a solid 11 months or so).




31 August 2011

Wordless Wednesday: Making me smile

A few things making me smile this week:

Drive-through coffee. Not the best coffee in the world, but the most convenient!
Sunny weather! I can wear my red shoes without socks or stockings.


Come on... how could you not smile?
Mr Cheeky gives the best cuddles. (Apologies for the bad photo)
Friendly neighbours
A favourite book. We thought it was lost, but now it is found!
Our new deck and doors almost done. Please ignore the rubbish in the yard, the builder's tools and the obvious need of some paint work.
A new blog - all about living as a Christian. I'm working with Jess, Deb, Lisa and Alyce. We start tomorrow

I'm joining in Wordless Wednesday at My Little Drummer Boys

What is making you smile this week?

I love to hear your opinions. Please click on the title of this blog post if you would like to view comments or add your own comment.

22 June 2011

The dilemmas of being a mummy fashionista

Anyone who knows me in real-life is probably laughing or raising their eyebrows right now. I am the furthest thing from a fashionista. On a scale of 1-10, 1 being Napoleon Dynamite, and 10 being Naomi Campbell, I am about a minus 3.

I am sad to say, that since the birth of my third child (and let's face it, probably since the birth of my first), I have been even less committed to fashion, if that were at all possible. There is something about being 10-15kg heavier than your "normal" weight, as well as living on permanently broken sleep, that seems to sap the motivation to dress up.

Every now and then however, I get a little spark of enthusiasm. A couple of weeks ago, I mentioned that I attended the EQUIP conference. As well as coming away motivated to love the Bible more, I came away motivated to attend to my appearance a little more (not really the main aim of the conference I would say!) I noticed so many well-dressed women at the conference, some who probably had more children than me, and some who would have taken a bigger dress size than me. It made me think that maybe having 3 kids and excess weight is no excuse for dagginess.

Since the conference was on Saturday, I decided to put a little more effort into dressing for church on Sunday. I put together the following outfit (from what I had that would fit):



I was feeling pretty happy about the whole thing. Wearing a dress meant that there was no muffin top over a skirt or pants - nice smooth lines. The boots just make a winter dress/ skirt outfit and the scarf topped it off nicely. I even put on make-up! 

At first, Matt (my husband) was just a bit confused by the whole process. Why was his normally low maintenance wife taking so long to get ready? (He did agree that it was worth the effort).

So, there I was, feeling pretty good about myself. I grabbed the nappy bag and the baby, while Matt got the other two kids in the car.

Then... as I was strapping the baby into the car, I felt the giddy rush of reality... "Oh no! I can't breastfeed in this!!" A simple problem with wearing the "smooth lines" of a dress. Unless you want to totally strip off, breastfeeding is impossible.

And, therein lies the dilemma of trying to be a mummy AND a fashionista.

(But I have recently harnessed the power of the scarf... it really makes a difference to an otherwise jeans and top sort of outfit).

Are you a fashionable mummy? How do you stay on top of the fashion game with limited time, motivation and money? Help!

And while I was writing this, this post popped up in my reader. I had better go and have a look!

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